Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Life after the 3-Day

September 23, 2009

Sheila here…

Walking for nine hours a day for three days in a row gives one lots of time to think, even when one if surrounded by 2,300 other walkers (not to mention supporters cheering, drivers honking and merchants handing out goodies ranging from fruit shish-ka-bobs to breast-shaped sugar cookies).

I completed the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer 3-Day walk Sept. 11-13 in Seattle with my two fantastic and energetic teammates, Carol LaMotte and Katherine Meenk – both friends from Oliver’s preschool. The experience was one I will likely never forget.



Seeing all these women (and a few men!) dressed in pink and ready to pound the pavement made me think about what they had all been through to be there. We gathered at Shoreline Community College for opening ceremonies before the sun came up. Large, pink paper lanterns with words like, “Courage” and “Hope” shone in the pre-dawn darkness.



At the very least, each and every one of these participants had put in considerable time and energy raising money for the event (we each had to earn at least $2,300 to participate) and had likely trained for months beforehand to be able to walk the 20 miles each day the course would require. I wondered what else the event meant to each participant. Why was each person was walking? Did their mother have breast cancer? A friend? A co-worker? A partner? Themselves?
After a moving opening ceremony, we left the grounds and began our walk. As we filed nearly single file down a trail, I realized just how many people were walking. The line of women seemed to go on forever. And every one of them was sacrificing a precious weekend to walk and walk and walk for one reason. To draw attention to breast cancer and hopefully find a cure.


In front of us was a woman who was carrying an extra pair of shoes. Carol, Katherine and I noticed and wondered to each other why she would be carrying her spare pair with her – we had planned to change our shoes the following day, but they were in our overnight bags, which were being delivered to our campsite. Later I realized: this woman was carrying these shoes all 60 miles for someone who couldn’t – rather, didn’t – make it.

Over the next several hours it began to dawn on me the impact of this walk. The 2,200 participants had raised millions of dollars. That’s big stuff. But every car that drove by and saw the steady stream of pink suddenly thought about breast cancer. And maybe they told their wife or husband when they got home what they saw. And the neighbors along the route who handed out candy, made signs or simply stood and cheered thought about breast cancer too. And hopefully they told their kids why they were cheering and wearing pink and crying a little bit and saying “thank you” over and over and over. And maybe THAT’S what’s going to make the difference.

Some of my favorite moments along the 60 mile route weren’t the elaborate balloon arches, free cookies or cheerleaders with their customized cheers (“Shake your boobies! Shake, shake your boobies!”). While those certainly brought a smile to my face (and my tummy!) some of the most touching examples of generosity were very small and subtle. In Edmonds, we passed by a schoolyard filled with children who had run to the fence and poked their tiny arms through to give us all high fives.



Elsewhere, people who probably didn’t have much money to spend on cookies, red vines or stickers instead pulled their hoses to the curb and sprayed down the hot and appreciative walkers.


Sometimes the neighbors weren’t out cheering, but they were supporting us all the same. Just knowing that people took the time to make signs gave me energy to keep on walking.




But what meant the most was the amazing support of all my family members and friends who donated money, sent cards, came out and cheered, or just kept me in their thoughts over the weekend. Here are a few of those who helped Team StompThis raise more than $15,000 to kick breast cancer!

Mom and Dad

Aunt Bev and Uncle Tony


Kendra


Carrie and Katie



Jason, Mia and Brian



Melissa and Katherine


Chris


Jason and Oliver


Elham and Sarah

Brenda



Pam

Leslie, Isaac and Maddie


Rebecca and August
...and Val, who came to the closing ceremonies but we didn't get a photo!

Oh yeah – and a little bit about radiation. I’m halfway through the six weeks and my last day is expected to be October 12. My skin is getting a little red and I am becoming tired, but it’s a piece of cake compared to chemo. I have also been working with my naturopath to create a healthy diet plan, and we have decided that I will avoid sugar for a month. It’s been almost two weeks and I have to say this is a lot harder than radiation by a long shot!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Radiation update

September 8, 2009

Sheila here…

I have completed my first week of radiation and just started my second week today. So far so good! I go in every weekday (weekends and holidays – such as Labor Day – I have off) for the treatment, which lasts only about 10 minutes. Add to that wait time, changing clothes, and getting situated on the table, and it’s just about a half hour total. Not so bad. No skin issues yet – those will apparently start showing up in a week or so. Most people get what they describe as a sunburn. I have some cream and some aloe gel to put on a few times a day. Hopefully that will keep the burn down.

Radiation is much different from chemotherapy. While the chemo was a drug administered intravenously, radiation is the use of a certain type of energy called ionizing radiation to kill cancer cells. The radiation is directed at the chest wall where the breast used to be. It comes out of a large machine that circles around me while I lay on a table. It reminds me of getting an x-ray. The techs come in, get me situated, then leave the room while the radiation is administered. Then they come back in, move me around a bit, and do it again. The machine moves around to four different positions to reach the chest wall from all angles.

Like all my caregivers, the radiation folks are very nice. There are usually three women in the room for my treatments. They are very good at short conversations. I’m in there so briefly there’s really only time to discuss a.) the shoes I am wearing; b.) the book I brought in to read in the waiting room; or c.) what I did over the weekend/last evening.

In other news, the 3-Day walk is Friday, and I am ready! The weather is supposed to be in the mid-70s – sounds just about perfect. Hope to see some of you along the route!